I haven't seen the video. The title alone turns me off.
I think Chris W's observation is to the point: when you want to change things, the people who like things as they are will take this as an insult. This is a logical reaction -especially in a climate like today's that encourages conformism. And it shouldn't stop us from doing what we feel is important. And we shouldn't be worried if that makes us seem snobbish or elitist. Maybe we should even be proud to be an elite.
I am an elitist, and I make no excuses or apologies for it!
I just ground myself be realizing I still have to work just as hard at having a happy and successful life.