I hate Destructoid. But just because I don't like them, doesn't mean they have nothing valid to say. It keeps the whole notgames thing from becoming an echo chamber. I'm not saying we are even close to that point but why would we want to be? I think these alternate points of view are a good thing.
I agree, and for more of that I suggested reading this:
http://www.gamestudies.org/0101/juul-gts/Basically an overview why video games is not a narrative media. I think it has lots of good points, but I do not agree with the conclusion.